Parent Tips

What Do Kids Really Want?

By: Linda Waggoner(Gulf Shores Elementary School)
http://www.gulftel.com/gsesdolphins/guidance.htm

What do kids really want most from their parents? A worldwide survey of almost 100,000 boys and girls has resulted in a list of ten do's and don'ts every mother and father should take into consideration when dealing with their child. As you read the following list, you will be surprised at some of the conclusions.

Let's take a look at the "TOP TEN":

1. Treat all of your children with equal affection.

2. Stay close to your children - share your feelings.

3. Make their friends welcome in your home.

4. Don't quarrel in front of them.

5. Be thoughtful to each other.

6. Never lie to your children.

7. Always answer their questions.

8. Don't punish your children in the presence of others.

9. Be consistent in affection and moods.

10. Concentrate on good points, not failings.

Parenting Helps and Hints/Discipline Tips for Parents

By: Linda Waggoner (Gulf Shores Elementary)
http://www.gulftel.com/gsesdolphins/guidance.htm

Discipline problems occur not only at school, but also in the home. Here are a few tips that can be used when you are faced with a disruptive child:

©Encourage and allow discussion - but remember, it is the parent that makes the final decision. Punishment should be swift, reasonable, related to the offense, and absolutely certain to occur.

©Throw out all rules you are unwilling to enforce, and be willing to change the rules if and when you think they need changing.

©Don't feel that you should try to justify rules, although you should try to explain them. Allow your child to assume responsibility for his/her decisions as he/she shows the ability to do so.

©Don't expect your child to demonstrate more self-control than you do. Be honest with your child - hypocrisy shows. The most important factor in your child's self-image is what he/she thinks you think of him/her. A child's self-image is a major factor in how he/she acts.